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The Camellia
The Camellia
Signature Floral Here For You Delivery Box
The Camellia
The Camellia
The Camellia
The Camellia
The Camellia
The Camellia
Signature Floral Here For You Delivery Box
The Camellia
The Camellia
The Camellia
The Camellia

The Camellia

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The Camellia is a curated care package of household essentials to help a friend or loved one in the days following a life-changing event, loss, or diagnosis. These items were chosen to keep the person you care about from having to run to the store in the coming days. They're here when they need them. 

    All Compassion Packages are tastefully presented in our signature floral delivery box with a personalized greeting card and a stylized insert. Finally, The Camellia includes an optional handwritten follow-up card from the Here For You team with words of compassion and ideas for resources, delivered 1-2 months after your purchase.

    • Typed notecard or handwritten card of your choice
    • Cutlery (16 sets)
    • Paper plates (20 count)
    • Tissues (1 box)
    • Toilet paper (4 rolls)
    • Paper towels (1 roll)
    • Garbage bags (20 count)
    • Hand soap (1 container)
    • Gallon size freezer storage bags (10 count)
    • Permanent labeling marker (1 count)

    These links provide you with more information about the add-ons including product sizes, scents, and ingredients.

    A Beginner's Guide to Navigating Grief (+4)

    A Very Schitty Coloring Book (+16)

    Adult Coloring Book (+14) 

    After Shave (+20) 

    Aloe Hand Lotion (+12) 

    Animal Origami Kit (+9)

    Anxiety: The Missing Stage of Grief (+15)

    Aromatherapy Dough (+14)

    Balancing Boat (+20)

    Bath Bomb (+9) 

    Bath Salt Soak (+15)

    Bath Tea (+12) 

    Beard Oil (+16)

    Bee Balm (+7)

    Beeswax Crayons | 10 ct (+8)

    Bod Butter (+18) 

    Body Scrub (+25)

    Botanical Bath Soak (+18)

    Botanicals Coloring Book (+10)

    Calendula Cream Lotion (+20)

    Candle Making Kit (+9)

    Hairstyling Clay (+14)

    Cocoa Rose Facial Cream (+20)

    Cold Process Soap (+9) 

    Cuticle Salve (+6) 

    Dancing At The Pity Party (+19)

    Death is Stupid Book (+20)

    Deodorant (+14)

    Dishwasher Powder (+10)

    Dry Shampoo (+14)

    Dual Tip Markers (+15)

    Eco-Kids Play Dough (+15)

    Embroidered Journal (+18)

    Embroidery Kits (+24-28)

    Everything Happens For a Reason And Other Lies I've Loved (+16)

    Felted Animal Kit (+28)

    Felted Photo Book (+9.50)

    Friends Coloring Book (+16)

    Gecko Blocks (+15-30)

    Guided Grief Journal (+25)

    Handmade Fairy Doll (+38)

    Handpoured Soywax Candle (+23)

    Hand and Surface Sanitizer (+5)

    Heel Balm (+10.50)

    Hey A**hole Coloring Book (+10)

    Hot Cocoa (+12.50)

    It's OK That You're Not OK (+10) 

    Laundry Soap (+10)

    Learn to Weave Kit (+36)

    Lifetimes Book (+15)

    Little Red Wagon Granola (+10)

    Mandalas Coloring Book (+15)

    Modern Loss: Candid Conversations About Loss (+15)

    Moisturizing Foot Cream (+9) 

    Moonstruck Chocolate Bar (+5)

    Mountain Moon Natural Cologne (+24) 

    Navigating Grief Booklet (+4)

    Parenting While Grieving (+4)

    Pillow Mist (+25)

    Rainbow Trifecta Cross Stitch Kit (+36)

    Repair Balm (+14)

    Reusable Heating Pad (+20)

    Roasted Artisanal Nuts (+7.50) 

    Rosewater Toner (+18)

    Seed Bars Variety Pack (+16) 

    Shower Steamer Set (+20)

    Sidewalk Chalk Set (+13)

    Soap & Deck Bundle (+15)

    Soap Sampler Set (+18) 

    Stacking Game (+10)

    Surviving The Grief of a Traumatic Loss (+4)

    Tea Sampler (+15) 

    The Best of Housewives Coloring Book (+16)

    The Goodbye Book (+12)

    The Hot Young Widows Club (+10)

    Your Story Matters Lined Journal (+15)   

    Click on the card images to see them in better detail.




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    Compassion Package Tips

    And answers to your pressing questions

    • What should I write in my card?

      Be sincere and share how you're feeling without overshadowing their grief.

      Example of sharing your pain in appropriate way: "Desi was such a positive light in my life. His humor brought me so much joy over the years. I will miss him terribly."Example of overshadowing the bereaved's pain: "This is the saddest thing that's ever happened to me — I don't know how I will get through this."

      Share a fond memory if you have one - especially if the card receiver has never heard it. 

      Anything that stands out to you will be special, even if it seems insignificant. 

      Share how you will continue to remember and honor the deceased (examples below)

      "I know Ralph loved key lime pie. Whenever I see it on the menu I'll be sure to order it and think of him." "My children are too young to remember your mom, but I will tell them about those adventurous summers we had camping together. I'm going to teach them how to light a campfire, just like how she taught me."

      If you want to offer help, be specific. If you can make a commitment, do it. 

      Avoid (at all costs) 'call me if you need me' - this puts the burden of action on the person you are trying to help. They will never call you. Offer a concrete way to help. Try 'I will bring you dinner next week', or 'I can watch the kids for you on Friday morning' and follow up on your offer. If you are in a position to offer ongoing support, don't be shy about sharing what you can do. For example, "I am home every Sunday afternoon. I would love to have your kids over to our house on the weekend so you have time to yourself. They are welcome any and all Sundays." Or, "What would be more helpful, if I bring over dinner every Friday or take your dog for hikes instead?"

      Avoid all platitudes. Common examples

      -You're strong

      -You will get through this

      -They're in a better place

      -They'll always be with you/in your heart

      -At least they....(didn't suffer, are no longer suffering, didn't know what was happening, had a chance to say goodbye, etc. etc. etc.)

      -May your memories bring you comfort

      -Everything happens for a reason/God needed an angel/God wouldn't give you more than you can handle

      It is best not to mention what I'll call religious comfort. Keep in mind that people who find comfort in their faith may not find comfort in statements like the ones I've listed above in the very early days after a loss. It is best to err on the side of caution and leave them out.

      Many of the religious statements or platitudes listed above are not really about about offering support. They're encouraging the bereaved to accept their new reality or express gratitude during heartache. Platitudes essentially come across as minimizing the bereaved's pain. 

      The advice listed above is just that — one person's advice. These are tips are based on what I've learned after speaking with many bereaved people, and also having written hundreds of cards myself. Trust your gut, and use these recommednations as a guide. 

    • How quickly will the package arrive?

      Most packages will reach their destination within 1-3 business days. If you select UPS Ground, it can take up to 5 days for the Compassion Package to be delivered.

      If you need guaranteed 1-2 day delivery, please choose Priority Mail Express or UPS Next Day Air at checkout (there will be an additional charge). 

      During the checkout process, you will receive a shipping estimate before the sale is finalized. Approximately 90-95% of orders arrive by the estimated shipping date. 

      If your order qualifies for free shipping, we will always select an option that estimates a 1-3 day delivery. 

    • I need to sent multiple packages — how do I do this?

      At this time we cannot process multiple destinations within one order. Please make each package a separate order.