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The Bluebell
The Bluebell
The Bluebell
The Bluebell
The Bluebell
The Bluebell
The Bluebell
The Bluebell
The Bluebell
The Bluebell
The Bluebell
The Bluebell
The Bluebell
The Bluebell
The Bluebell
The Bluebell
The Bluebell
The Bluebell

The Bluebell

Starting from

$72.00

The Bluebell is a curated care package of household essentials to help a friend or family member in the days following the birth or adoption of a child. Babies are beautiful and tiny, but amazingly demanding, and they have the habit of making life a bit more difficult as families adjust to their arrival. While baby outfits are overly adorable these days, gifts of practical products (and perhaps a few extra self-care items) would be welcomed by any new mom or dad.

    The Bluebell is tastefully presented in our signature floral delivery box with a personalized greeting card and a stylized sticker insert describing the contents and their purpose.

  • Typed notecard or handwritten card of your choice
  • Cutlery (16 sets)
  • Paper plates (20 count)
  • Paper towels (1 roll)
  • Garbage bags (12 count)
  • Hand soap (1 container)
  • Tissues (1 box)
  • Toilet paper (4 rolls)
  • Gallon size freezer storage bags (10 count)
  • Granola bars (5 count)
  • Permanent labeling marker (1 count)

  • Baby Wipe Spray (+16) - A safe way to clean up after baby. Mist and wipe away spills, sticky fingers, stinky bums and everything in between. Floral water and vitamin e oil to keep sensitive skin safe. Made with lavender floral water, witch hazel, vitamin e and evening primrose. (4 oz)

    Bath Bomb
    (+9) - A moisturizing, fizzing, floral bath experience. Powered with shea butter and lavender essential oils.

    Bath Tea (+12) - This bath tea utilizes the simple yet effective properties of flower petals. Add to a warm bath for soothing aches and sore muscles, relieving tension, lifting stress.

    Body Oil ($22) - Coconut oil scented with essential oils. Massage on body after shower, add to a warm bath, or gently apply to pressure points throughout the day or during meditation. Three varieties: New Moon (bergamot, lavender, lime, helichrysum, vanilla, frankincense, orange), Sana (copaiba, lavender, laurel leaf, frankincense and arnica solar infused oil) and Sensi (chamomile, frankincense, cedarwood, lavender and ylang ylang). (2 oz)

    Bosom Butter (+18) - For use between nursing, gently apply to clean skin. Made with raw beeswax, coconut oil, herb-infused rice bran oil, vitamin e, jojoba oil, chamomile essential oil. (2 oz)

    Botanical Bath Soak (+18) - Each bath soak is created with nutrient-dense, botanical ingredients carefully created to enhance a warm bath and deliver specific benefits for certain needs. Two varieties: Rose Cloud (rose petals and mineral-rich pink Himalayan salt) and Restore Soak (replenishing blend of magnesium, sea salt, lavender buds, and essential oil, and copaiba oil. 

    Calming Baby Balm (+18) - An herb-infused blend of lavender and calendula oils, vitamin e and chamomile for minor irritations and gentle massage on baby.

    Handpoured Soywax Candle (+20) - Two varieties: New Moon (lavender and frankincense) and Peace (clove, mint, sage, fir needle, cinnamon)  These candles are no-smoke and scented naturally. Burned from a wooden wick.

    Lavender Baby Wash (+16) - A blend of castile soap and lavender floral water for a natural and safe way to clean baby. Detergent, preservative, additive, dye, fragrance-free and non-toxic, this gentle formula is earth and sensitive skin-friendly. (4 oz)

    Lip Whip (+12.50) - Rich, active seed oils and butters with deeply hydrating properties are whipped in a nourishing, restorative balm for mending our lips' dry and delicate skin.

    Pillow Mist (+18) - A combination of essential oils that together offer calming, sedative, stress-lifting and anxiety-reducing properties. Can be misted on linens, towels, face or body. Two varieties: Moon Dust, made with lavender floral water, butterfly pea flowers, witch hazel, and essential oils of: chamomile, frankincense, lavender, and sage; and Star Dust, made with lavender floral water, witch hazel, and essential oils of: lavender, cedarwood, frankincense, ylang ylang, and Himalayan pink salt. (2 oz)

    Reusable Bamboo Nursing Pads (14) - Ultra-soft velour fabric and a thicker, leak-proof design make these absorbent pads an overnight or newborn nursing essential. Four pads/two pairs. 

    Seed-based Granola (8) - Loving referred to as seed'nola, this seed-based granola is free of the 8 most common allergens. Crunchy clusters of the signature 88 acres seed blend (sunflower, flax and pumpkin seeds) combined with oats and gently sweetened with maple syrup and powdered sugar. Comes in two flavors: triple berry blend and cinnamon & oat. (10oz bag)

    Seed Bar Variety Pack (12.50) - Made by 88 Acres, these seed bars are a mix of oats, pumpkin, sunflower, and flax seeds. They are free from the 8 most common allergens, making them accessible to most. With a diverse flavor offering, they're also gluten-free, nut-free, and non-GMO. Delivered in a stamped gift box. Included flavors: dark chocolate & sea salt, cinnamon & oats, double chocolate mocha, triple berry blend, and spiced ginger apple.

    Soap Sampler (+18) - A four-bar selection of handmade cold-processed soaps. Mixed with essential and botanical oils, flowers and herbs. (4 oz)

    Tea Sampler (+15) - A selection of 8 servings of single-serve teas. A mix of caffeinated and caffeine-free. Teas come from Stone Leaf Tea House in Middlebury, VT.

    Therapy Pillows & Nursing Pads (+24) - Bamboobies Therapy Pillows can be cooled in the freezer to ease pain of engorgement and nipple chafing or discomfort from teething or weaning. They can be warmed in the microwave to ease the discomfort of plugged ducts and mastitis or to stimulate let-down. Made with bamboo and flax seeds. Each set of therapy pillows also comes with one pair of reusable/washable nursing pads. 

    Whipped Body Butter (+20) - A combination of whipped coconut oil and shea butter, essential oils and highly effective nut and seed-derived oils come together in this luxurious whipped body butter. For deep moisturizing and extra dry skin. (2oz)

    Whipped Salt Scrub (+18) - Whipped salt, coconut oil and castile soap scrub infused with essential oils and botanical extracts for absorption and added nutrients. The soap base cleans while rich coconut oil moisturizes and salt sloughs away dead skin. 

    All bath and body products are from Among The Flowers, a small, hand-made natural body care company in Placerville, CA. 

    Teas are purchased from Stone Leaf Teahouse in Middlebury, VT and the sampler pack is assembled in house. 


    Domestic orders over $75 include free 1-3 day shipping (USPS Priority Mail or UPS Ground).

    Orders placed before 1 PM (Monday - Friday) will typically ship the same day.

    Orders placed before 10 AM on Saturday will typically ship the same day. 

    If you would like guaranteed 1-2 day delivery, please select Priority Mail Express or UPS Next Day Air (additional charges will apply). 

    We care deeply about our company's environmental impact. Where possible, we at Here For You have chosen premium brands that use recycled content and are friendlier to the environment. Our office is powered by solar power. 

    We work with companies with similar missions, like Mrs. Meyers, Seventh Generation, Repurpose, World Centric, If You Care, Who Gives a Crap, Preserve, Stone Leaf Teahouse, Bamboobies and Among the Flowers.  

    All of the packaging that we use for our Compassion Packages is compostable or recyclable. 

     

    Compassion Package Tips

    And answers to your pressing questions

    • What should I write in my card?

      Be sincere and share how you're feeling without overshadowing their grief.

      Example of sharing your pain in appropriate way: "Desi was such a positive light in my life. His humor brought me so much joy over the years. I will miss him terribly."Example of overshadowing the bereaved's pain: "This is the saddest thing that's ever happened to me — I don't know how I will get through this."

      Share a fond memory if you have one - especially if the card receiver has never heard it. 

      Anything that stands out to you will be special, even if it seems insignificant. 

      Share how you will continue to remember and honor the deceased (examples below)

      "I know Ralph loved key lime pie. Whenever I see it on the menu I'll be sure to order it and think of him." "My children are too young to remember your mom, but I will tell them about those adventurous summers we had camping together. I'm going to teach them how to light a campfire, just like how she taught me."

      If you want to offer help, be specific. If you can make a commitment, do it. 

      Avoid (at all costs) 'call me if you need me' - this puts the burden of action on the person you are trying to help. They will never call you. Offer a concrete way to help. Try 'I will bring you dinner next week', or 'I can watch the kids for you on Friday morning' and follow up on your offer. If you are in a position to offer ongoing support, don't be shy about sharing what you can do. For example, "I am home every Sunday afternoon. I would love to have your kids over to our house on the weekend so you have time to yourself. They are welcome any and all Sundays." Or, "What would be more helpful, if I bring over dinner every Friday or take your dog for hikes instead?"

      Avoid all platitudes. Common examples

      -You're strong

      -You will get through this

      -They're in a better place

      -They'll always be with you/in your heart

      -At least they....(didn't suffer, are no longer suffering, didn't know what was happening, had a chance to say goodbye, etc. etc. etc.)

      -May your memories bring you comfort

      -Everything happens for a reason/God needed an angel/God wouldn't give you more than you can handle


      It is best not to mention what I'll call religious comfort. Keep in mind that people who find comfort in their faith may not find comfort in statements like the ones I've listed above in the very early days after a loss. It is best to err on the side of caution and leave them out.

      Many of the religious statements or platitudes listed above are not really about about offering support. They're encouraging the bereaved to accept their new reality or express gratitude during heartache. Platitudes essentially come across as minimizing the bereaved's pain. 

      The advice listed above is just that — one person's advice. These are tips are based on what I've learned after speaking with many bereaved people, and also having written hundreds of cards myself. Trust your gut, and use these recommednations as a guide. 

    • How quickly will the package arrive?

      Most packages will reach their destination within 1-3 business days. If you select UPS Ground, it can take up to 5 days for the Compassion Package to be delivered.

      If you need guaranteed 1-2 day delivery, please choose Priority Mail Express or UPS Next Day Air at checkout (there will be an additional charge). 

      During the checkout process, you will receive a shipping estimate before the sale is finalized. Approximately 90-95% of orders arrive by the estimated shipping date. 

      If your order qualifies for free shipping, we will always select an option that estimates a 1-3 day delivery. 

    • I need to sent multiple packages — how do I do this?

      At this time we cannot process multiple destinations within one order. Please make each package a separate order.