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The Zinnia - Customize Your Own
The Zinnia - Customize Your Own
The Zinnia - Customize Your Own
The Zinnia - Customize Your Own
The Zinnia - Customize Your Own
The Zinnia - Customize Your Own
The Zinnia - Customize Your Own
The Zinnia - Customize Your Own
The Zinnia - Customize Your Own
The Zinnia - Customize Your Own
The Zinnia - Customize Your Own
The Zinnia - Customize Your Own
The Zinnia - Customize Your Own
The Zinnia - Customize Your Own
The Zinnia - Customize Your Own
The Zinnia - Customize Your Own
The Zinnia - Customize Your Own
The Zinnia - Customize Your Own
The Zinnia - Customize Your Own
The Zinnia - Customize Your Own

The Zinnia - Customize Your Own

Starting from

$12.00

The Zinnia is a fully customizable self-care Compassion Package. The starting price includes:

  • Signature floral delivery box, tissue wrapping paper, stylized cardstock insert, and a typed notecard or handwritten card of your choosing. 
  • An optional personalized handwritten follow-up card to the package received from the Here For You team with words of compassion and ideas for resources delivered 1-2 months after your purchase. 
  • All box contents must be added separately. 
  • Use the Card Images and Text tab above to see our full handwritten card catalogue

Click the card image to read the full card text

Sympathy/Death/Illness

Thinking of you/Just because

Blank (inside & outside)

Loss of a pet

 

Customer Reviews

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Anonymous

Supporting others through grief is hard because you can never know what they're feeling or the exact right words to say, especially if you're not really close. A care package felt like the best way to show support without being imposing, and the act of putting it together also made me think hard about what the family was going through and what they might need. I looked through several different services and found Here For You to be the best one available by far. The packages are thoughtfully designed around the real needs of grieving people and the Zinnia customization allowed me to create something that fit the family's unique circumstances. Depending on what you want in your box, the price is easily comparable to sending a nice floral arrangement but the recipient gets something so much better. I am really grateful that this service exists.

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D.C.

I love the ability to customize my box and from vetted resources. The book options were the same I saw in searching for the best books on grief. I loved that one could include items based on the person themselves and not a generic bundle of items. I love the special touches added to make this feel like I sent it myself. It took a load off me and helped me be freed up to do more for my grieving friend.

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M.M.

I was looking to send something other than flowers as a sympathy gesture. I thought the selection of gifts were very sweet and was quite pleased with the free shipping. I loved the selection of “real feelings” cards as well

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J.P.

Here For You gives you the ability to personalize a care package to a loved one with options that are not only practical but therapeutic. For those reasons, I am grateful and a forever customer.

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R.M.

Here For You provided the perfect gift options to support a friend after a tragic loss. The customization aspect gave me the ability to tailor the gift to my friend’s interests and needs. I’m very appreciative of their personal touch along the way. Many thanks!

Compassion Package Tips

And answers to your pressing questions

  • What should I write in my card?

    Be sincere and share how you're feeling without overshadowing their grief.

    Example of sharing your pain in appropriate way: "Desi was such a positive light in my life. His humor brought me so much joy over the years. I will miss him terribly."Example of overshadowing the bereaved's pain: "This is the saddest thing that's ever happened to me — I don't know how I will get through this."

    Share a fond memory if you have one - especially if the card receiver has never heard it. 

    Anything that stands out to you will be special, even if it seems insignificant. 

    Share how you will continue to remember and honor the deceased (examples below)

    "I know Ralph loved key lime pie. Whenever I see it on the menu I'll be sure to order it and think of him." "My children are too young to remember your mom, but I will tell them about those adventurous summers we had camping together. I'm going to teach them how to light a campfire, just like how she taught me."

    If you want to offer help, be specific. If you can make a commitment, do it. 

    Avoid (at all costs) 'call me if you need me' - this puts the burden of action on the person you are trying to help. They will never call you. Offer a concrete way to help. Try 'I will bring you dinner next week', or 'I can watch the kids for you on Friday morning' and follow up on your offer. If you are in a position to offer ongoing support, don't be shy about sharing what you can do. For example, "I am home every Sunday afternoon. I would love to have your kids over to our house on the weekend so you have time to yourself. They are welcome any and all Sundays." Or, "What would be more helpful, if I bring over dinner every Friday or take your dog for hikes instead?"

    Avoid all platitudes. Common examples

    -You're strong

    -You will get through this

    -They're in a better place

    -They'll always be with you/in your heart

    -At least they....(didn't suffer, are no longer suffering, didn't know what was happening, had a chance to say goodbye, etc. etc. etc.)

    -May your memories bring you comfort

    -Everything happens for a reason/God needed an angel/God wouldn't give you more than you can handle


    It is best not to mention what I'll call religious comfort. Keep in mind that people who find comfort in their faith may not find comfort in statements like the ones I've listed above in the very early days after a loss. It is best to err on the side of caution and leave them out.

    Many of the religious statements or platitudes listed above are not really about about offering support. They're encouraging the bereaved to accept their new reality or express gratitude during heartache. Platitudes essentially come across as minimizing the bereaved's pain. 

    The advice listed above is just that — one person's advice. These are tips are based on what I've learned after speaking with many bereaved people, and also having written hundreds of cards myself. Trust your gut, and use these recommednations as a guide. 

  • How quickly will the package arrive?

    Most packages will reach their destination within 1-5 business days.

    If you need guaranteed 1-2 day delivery, please choose Priority Mail Express or UPS Next Day Air at checkout (there will be an additional charge). 

    During the checkout process, you will receive a shipping estimate before the sale is finalized. Approximately 90-95% of orders arrive by the estimated shipping date. 

    If your order qualifies for free shipping, we will send the box via USPS Priority Mail or UPS Ground.

  • I need to sent multiple packages — how do I do this?

    At this time we cannot process multiple destinations within one order. Please make each package a separate order.