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Hapless Holiday Build Your Own
Hapless Holiday Build Your Own
Hapless Holiday Build Your Own
Hapless Holiday Build Your Own
Hapless Holiday Build Your Own
Hapless Holiday Build Your Own
Hapless Holiday Build Your Own
Hapless Holiday Build Your Own
Hapless Holiday Build Your Own
Hapless Holiday Build Your Own
Hapless Holiday Build Your Own
Hapless Holiday Build Your Own
Hapless Holiday Build Your Own
Hapless Holiday Build Your Own
Hapless Holiday Build Your Own
Hapless Holiday Build Your Own
Hapless Holiday Build Your Own
Hapless Holiday Build Your Own
Hapless Holiday Build Your Own
Hapless Holiday Build Your Own
Hapless Holiday Build Your Own
Hapless Holiday Build Your Own
Hapless Holiday Build Your Own
Hapless Holiday Build Your Own
Hapless Holiday Build Your Own
Hapless Holiday Build Your Own
Hapless Holiday Build Your Own
Hapless Holiday Build Your Own
Hapless Holiday Build Your Own
Hapless Holiday Build Your Own

Hapless Holiday Build Your Own

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$12.00

Send some compassion to a loved one who is hurting this holiday season.

The inevitable ads with festive family gatherings, flower bouquets in the supermarket, or advertisements for a special dinner for two — for many people, these are painful reminders of what's been lost.

The Hapless Holiday Compassion Package lets someone know you're thinking of them without the traditional fanfare of the holiday season.

Build Your Own (Starts at $12) - Build your own box from scratch. The starting price covers the gift packaging, handwritten card, and an optional Practical Guide For Grieving During the Holidays. All add-ons must be added separately. 

 

These links provide you with more information about the add-ons including product size, scents, and ingredients. 

A Practical Guide for Grieving During the Holidays (+4)

A Very Schitty Coloring Book (+16)

Adult Coloring Book (+14) 

After Shave (+20) 

Aloe Hand Lotion (+10) 

Anxiety: The Missing Stage of Grief (+15)

Aromatherapy Dough (+14)

Bath Bomb (+9) 

Bath Salt Soak (+15)

Bath Tea (+12) 

Beard Oil (+16)

Bee Balm (+7)

Bod Butter (+18) 

Body Oil (+20)

Body Scrub (+25)

Botanical Bath Soak (+18)

Cold Process Soap (+9) 

Cream Body Butter (+26

Cuticle Salve (+6) 

Dual Tip Markers (+15)

Embroidered Journal (+18)

Embroidery Kits (+24-28)

Exfoliating Face Mask (+25) 

Face & Body Mist (+23)

Felted Animal Kit (+20)

Guided Grief Journal (+25)

Handpoured Soywax Candle (+23)

Hand and Surface Sanitizer (+5)

Heel Balm (+10.50)

Hot Cocoa (+12.50)

It's OK That You're Not OK (+10) 

Little Red Wagon Granola (+10)

Modern Loss: Candid Conversations About Loss (+15)

Moisturizing Foot Cream (+9) 

Moonstruck Chocolate Bar (+5)

Mountain Moon Natural Cologne (+24) 

Navigating Grief Booklet (+4)

Pillow Mist (+23)

Rainbow Trifecta Cross Stitch Kit (+36)

Repair Balm (+14)

Reusable Heating Pad (+20)

Roasted Artisanal Nuts (+7.50) 

Seed Bars Variety Pack (+16) 

Shower Steamer Set (+20)

Soap & Deck Bundle (+15)

Soap Sampler Set (+18) 

Tea Sampler (+15) 

The Best of Housewives Coloring Book (+16)

The Hot Young Widows Club (+10)

Whipped Salt Scrub (+18) 

Your Story Matters Lined Journal (+15)  

Customer Reviews

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B.J.

Thank you, we feel like you guys truly care.

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B.G.

Here For You is the perfect company to show kindness and compassion to loved ones during unperfect times. The compassion package I sent a friend after the unexpected loss of her brother was well-received and so appreciated. They are professional and timely in their responses and I really appreciate the follow up cards they send to the gift recipients.

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D.S.

This is such a unique, thoughtful, creative, practical service. It was easy (and fun) to choose the contents of the care package and my mother in law was so touched.

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S.M.

Please keep doing what you're doing! Not only am I a teacher, but I'm also a pastor's wife, and I plan to use your service again.

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R.
Great Company

I got a gift for my friend that was getting out of surgery. The gift was really well received by my friend. The best part of the purchase was the amazing customer service and follow up by the company. Thanks so much!

Compassion Package Tips

And answers to your pressing questions

  • What should I write in my card?

    Be sincere and share how you're feeling without overshadowing their grief.

    Example of sharing your pain in appropriate way: "Desi was such a positive light in my life. His humor brought me so much joy over the years. I will miss him terribly."Example of overshadowing the bereaved's pain: "This is the saddest thing that's ever happened to me — I don't know how I will get through this."

    Share a fond memory if you have one - especially if the card receiver has never heard it. 

    Anything that stands out to you will be special, even if it seems insignificant. 

    Share how you will continue to remember and honor the deceased (examples below)

    "I know Ralph loved key lime pie. Whenever I see it on the menu I'll be sure to order it and think of him." "My children are too young to remember your mom, but I will tell them about those adventurous summers we had camping together. I'm going to teach them how to light a campfire, just like how she taught me."

    If you want to offer help, be specific. If you can make a commitment, do it. 

    Avoid (at all costs) 'call me if you need me' - this puts the burden of action on the person you are trying to help. They will never call you. Offer a concrete way to help. Try 'I will bring you dinner next week', or 'I can watch the kids for you on Friday morning' and follow up on your offer. If you are in a position to offer ongoing support, don't be shy about sharing what you can do. For example, "I am home every Sunday afternoon. I would love to have your kids over to our house on the weekend so you have time to yourself. They are welcome any and all Sundays." Or, "What would be more helpful, if I bring over dinner every Friday or take your dog for hikes instead?"

    Avoid all platitudes. Common examples

    -You're strong

    -You will get through this

    -They're in a better place

    -They'll always be with you/in your heart

    -At least they....(didn't suffer, are no longer suffering, didn't know what was happening, had a chance to say goodbye, etc. etc. etc.)

    -May your memories bring you comfort

    -Everything happens for a reason/God needed an angel/God wouldn't give you more than you can handle


    It is best not to mention what I'll call religious comfort. Keep in mind that people who find comfort in their faith may not find comfort in statements like the ones I've listed above in the very early days after a loss. It is best to err on the side of caution and leave them out.

    Many of the religious statements or platitudes listed above are not really about about offering support. They're encouraging the bereaved to accept their new reality or express gratitude during heartache. Platitudes essentially come across as minimizing the bereaved's pain. 

    The advice listed above is just that — one person's advice. These are tips are based on what I've learned after speaking with many bereaved people, and also having written hundreds of cards myself. Trust your gut, and use these recommednations as a guide. 

  • How quickly will the package arrive?

    Most packages will reach their destination within 1-3 business days. If you select UPS Ground, it can take up to 5 days for the Compassion Package to be delivered.

    If you need guaranteed 1-2 day delivery, please choose Priority Mail Express or UPS Next Day Air at checkout (there will be an additional charge). 

    During the checkout process, you will receive a shipping estimate before the sale is finalized. Approximately 90-95% of orders arrive by the estimated shipping date. 

    If your order qualifies for free shipping, we will always select an option that estimates a 1-3 day delivery. 

  • I need to sent multiple packages — how do I do this?

    At this time we cannot process multiple destinations within one order. Please make each package a separate order.