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10ft Universal Charger with USB Wall Adaptor
$20.0010ft Universal Charger with USB Wall Adaptor
10ft Universal Charger with USB Wall Adaptor
$20.00For anyone with limited mobility at home or in the hospital, this 10ft Univeral Charger will keep their devices powered up and close at hand. The charging cable has three ports - Micro USB, Lightning, and Type C, so it is friendly for Apple and Android devices.
The blue cable will also be easy to see among bedsheets and blankets. Includes a 12V USB wall adaptor.
Bundled together in a cotton drawstring bag.
A Beginner's Guide to Navigating Grief Booklet
$4.00A Beginner's Guide to Navigating Grief Booklet
A Beginner's Guide to Navigating Grief Booklet
$4.00
Brought to you by the team at What's Your Grief — two grief counselors who run one of the most helpful grief websites.
Although there are no directions, checklists, or black-and-white answers to grief, a general understanding of what grief is, what it isn’t, what’s typical and expected, and what can help provide grieving people with a sense of normalcy, hope, and encouragement.
In this 18-page booklet, they outline the concepts they feel are most helpful for grievers to understand as they cope with their losses.
Topics discussed in this booklet include:
- General truths about grief
- Types of grief
- Secondary loss
- Grief theory
- Tips for coping with grief
A Little Something Card
$5.00A Little Something Card
A Little Something Card
$5.00
Card text reads: A little something to let you know I'm thinking of you!
- Blank inside
- A2 size (4.25" x 5.5") card and envelope
- Printed in the USA on heavyweight matte stock
Card by 5 Dot Post
A Practical Guide For Grieving During the Holidays
$4.00A Practical Guide For Grieving During the Holidays
A Practical Guide For Grieving During the Holidays
$4.00
One of the best ways to make it through the holidays after a loss is to acknowledge that certain things are going to be hard and plan ahead.
By thinking about the elements that will be the hardest for you and your loved ones this holiday season, you can ensure you have support systems and coping outlets to lean on when painful moments inevitably occur.
In this 12-page booklet, What's Your Grief provides readers with a practical plan for grieving during the holidays. The plan laid out within can be completed on your own or with family and friends.
Topics discussed in this booklet include:
- A step-by-step plan that readers can complete on their own or with family and friends
- Tips for coping
- Ideas for honoring and remembering deceased loved ones.
Air Dry Clay Kit
$14.00Air Dry Clay Kit
Air Dry Clay Kit
$14.00The Baby Dino Theme comes with 12 colors of soft air dry modeling clays and 3 sets of googly eyes. Also includes step-by-step instructions to create 3 adorable dinosaurs.
Clay will harden naturally over the course of a few days, or will last over a year in the sturdy storage containers.
Always a Sibling
$27.00Always a Sibling
Always a Sibling
$27.00After her brother was killed by a suicide bomber in Afghanistan, Annie Sklaver Orenstein was heartbroken and unmoored. Standing in the grief section of her local bookstore, she searched for guides on how to work through her grief as a mourning sibling—and found nothing. More than 4 million American adults each year will lose a sibling, yet there isn't a modern resource guide available that speaks directly to this type of grief that at times can be overshadowed by grieving parents and spouses and made even more difficult by the complexities of sibling dynamics.
In Always a Sibling, Annie uses her own story and those of others to create the empathic, thoughtful, practical resource that she sought. Divided into three sections: With, Without, and Within, it creates a framework that enables the reader to ground themselves in order to process and validate this often overlooked grief. Annie guides readers to capture the memories and emotions of life with their now deceased sibling, then moves to addressing the grieving process in detail as they navigate life without them. Ultimately, readers will find ways to experience their sibling's presence within themselves and acknowledge their legacy.
With practical strategies rooted in proven grief processing techniques, trauma recovery, and psychoanalysis, Always A Sibling truly supports mourners through the unique experience of sibling loss.
An Exact Replica of a Figment of My Imagination
$16.00An Exact Replica of a Figment of My Imagination
An Exact Replica of a Figment of My Imagination
$16.00
This book is about what happened next. In her ninth month of pregnancy, she learned that her baby boy had died. How do you deal with and recover from this kind of loss? Of course, you don't — but you go on. And if you have ever experienced loss or love someone who has, the company of this remarkable book will help you go on.
With humor and warmth and unfailing generosity, McCracken considers the nature of love and grief. She opens her heart and leaves all of ours the richer for it.
Anticipatory Grief: A Guide to Coping with Impending Loss
$4.00Anticipatory Grief: A Guide to Coping with Impending Loss
Anticipatory Grief: A Guide to Coping with Impending Loss
$4.00
A common myth about grief is that it always follows death. Most people don’t realize that once death is anticipated, even if it’s just a possibility, it is natural to begin grieving.
This 12-page booklet, What's Your Grief outlines important concepts to know as a person navigates the complicated and overwhelming experience of anticipatory grief.
Topics discussed in this resource include:
- General truths about grief
- Understanding anticipatory grief
- Grieving during a loved one’s illness
- Caregiver burnout
- Coping during a loved one’s illness
- Coping after a death
Anxiety: The Missing Stage of Grief
$18.00Anxiety: The Missing Stage of Grief
Anxiety: The Missing Stage of Grief
$18.00
Significant loss and unresolved grief are primary underpinnings of anxiety, something that grief expert Claire Bidwell Smith discovered in her own life and in her practice with her therapy clients. Now, using research and real-life stories, Smith breaks down the physiology of anxiety, giving you a concrete foundation of understanding in order to help you heal.
With concrete tools and coping strategies for panic attacks, getting a handle on anxious thoughts, and more, Smith bridges these two emotions in a way that is deeply empathetic and eminently practical.
Aromatherapy Dough
$15.00Aromatherapy Dough
Aromatherapy Dough
$15.00Análú (ahn-a-loo) thinking putty is a handmade therapy dough and scented putty that is geared towards adults (but can be used by kids) to help relax, revive, and stimulate both the mind and body. Made with 100% natural ingredients
- Análú is colored with 100% natural fruit and vegetable extracts
- All ingredients are listed on the side of each jar, as we believe in transparency as a company
- Blended with lavender pure essential oil and vegetable pigments to create a calming, fragrant, tactile experience
- Inhale slowly, exhale completely and keep restless hands busy
This dough is made with wheat flour and contains gluten
Made by eco-kids.
As Time Passes: Coping with the anniversary of a loved one's death
$3.00As Time Passes: Coping with the anniversary of a loved one's death
As Time Passes: Coping with the anniversary of a loved one's death
$3.00
One of the top recommendations to people, professionals, and organizations wishing to support someone who’s grieving is to remember to check-in around the anniversary of the loved one’s death. What's Your Grief created this resource with this intention in mind.
In this four-panel accordion fold brochure, we discuss:
- The significance of the year-mark of a loved one’s death
- Communicating with family and friends about the day
- Planning how you will cope with the day
- Ideas for coping and memorialization
Awkward Sympathy Card
$5.00Awkward Sympathy Card
Awkward Sympathy Card
$5.00
Card text reads: Well, this just sucks. I wish I had a better way to say it, but my brain feels totally stuck right now. But I just want you to know that even though I might not always have exactly the right words, you will always have me. I'm not going anywhere. So I hope you're cool with that. Because I love you.
- Blank inside
- A2 size (4.25" x 5.5") card and envelope
- Printed in the USA on heavyweight matte stock
Card by Em & Friends
Baby Otter Parenting Card
$5.00Baby Otter Parenting Card
Baby Otter Parenting Card
$5.00
Card text reads: Parenting Truth: It's really fucking hard to sleep like this. Hang in there. You're doing great.
- Blank inside
- A2 size (4.25" x 5.5") card and envelope
- Printed in the USA on heavyweight matte stock
Card by Em & Friends
Bamboo Loofah Soap
$9.00Bamboo Loofah Soap
Bamboo Loofah Soap
$9.00This fresh-scented soap is pure sunshine. The bamboo’s green, floral undertones couple wonderfully with the grapefruit’s citrusy bounce. Because this soap bar is lovingly handmade by Maggie Ann Soap Company, there will be color and size variations with each batch.
INGREDIENTS
Water, Olive Oil, Coconut Oil, Organic Sustainable Palm Oil, Sodium Hydroxide, Sweet Almond Oil, Hempseed Oil, Fair Trade Shea Butter, Fragrance Oil, Castor Oil, Loofah, Pigments/Mica
Bamboo Paper Towels
$4.50Bamboo Paper Towels
Bamboo Paper Towels
$4.50A spare roll of paper towels is always useful. The recipient can put these to use right away or store them under the sink to use in the future. Anything to prevent a trip to the store is a good thing!
Regular paper towels are made from tree fibers - what the industry calls virgin pulp. Wood fibers are long so they can be loosely woven. This makes for a fluffy, absorbent product (like a sponge) but at the expense of our forest ecosystems 😞.
Disposable bamboo paper towels are strong, absorbent, and (most importantly) a sustainable option for the majority of your household clean-up + wipe-down needs.
- FSC®certified, 100% bamboo fibers
- 90 select-a-size sheets per roll
- 100% bamboo core
- 2-ply and embossed texture for extra strength
- No inks, dyes, or scents
- BPA-free & hypoallergenic
- Plastic-free packaging
- Compostable and biodegradable
Bamboo Scrubber
$5.00Bamboo Scrubber
Bamboo Scrubber
$5.00
This earth friendly pot scrubber easily tackles all messy dish clean-ups with its coarse plant-derived sisal bristles. Safe for non-stick pans.
The scrubber is completely compostable. Made from a combination of bamboo, coconut and sisal fibers.
By Bamboo Switch.
Bamboo Soap Deck
$6.00Bamboo Soap Deck
Bamboo Soap Deck
$6.00This bamboo soap deck will extend the life of your soap bars. Made from 100% bamboo and 100% compostable.
By Bamboo Switch.
Bamboo Toilet Paper
$3.50Bamboo Toilet Paper
Bamboo Toilet Paper
$3.50- FSC®certified, 100% bamboo fibers
- 360 tree-free sheets per roll
- 3-ply and embossed texture for extra strength
- No inks, dyes, or scents
- BPA-free & hypoallergenic
- Plastic-free packaging
- Septic safe and biodegradable
Bath Tea
$12.00Bath Tea
Bath Tea
$12.00Soothing Bath Tea. Add to a warm bath for soothing aches and sore muscles, relieving tension, and lifting stress. This is a great option for a post-partum ritual for soothing the body and mind. Also, a wonderful addition to children's baths as it adds essential nutrients to otherwise drying waters.
Use: Add a single tea pouch to a warm bath and let the herbs steep.
Ingredients: Rose petals, lavender buds, chamomile buds, calendula petals.
4oz | Made by Among the Flowers in Placerville, CA
Beard & Body Salve
$14.00Beard & Body Salve
Beard & Body Salve
$14.00
This skin softening aftershave salve contains organic olive oil, homegrown, organic calendula, balsam and fir essential oils.
The calendula-infused organic olive oil makes for the perfect skin-softening balm for just about anywhere that needs extra repair. Natural beeswax makes for a long-lasting moisturizer.
Salve by Orchard Farm Soap.
Beard Balm
$18.00Beard Balm
Beard Balm
$18.00Style and condition facial hair with this tidy tin of beard balm.
Benefits:
- Creates a dynamic definition and separation
- Packaged in infinitely recyclable aluminum to protect ingredient integrity
- Cruelty-Free
- No animal testing
Ingredients: Shea butter, beeswax, apricot oil, evergreen oil, cocoa butter
Net Wt: 1.69 oz (48 g)
Made by Lovett Sundries in Pittsburgh, PA
Beard Oil
$28.00Beard Oil
Beard Oil
$28.00This Beard Oil contains a blend of quick-absorbing base oils and beneficial essential oils to not only keep the beard under control but more importantly to care for the skin under the beard. 2 fl oz.
Use: Smooth a few drops over a clean beard and face and massage in well.
Made by Lovett Sundries in Pittsburgh, PA
Beeswax Candle-Making Kit
$9.00Beeswax Candle-Making Kit
Beeswax Candle-Making Kit
$9.00
Candle lighting is often used as part of a moment of remembrance or an on going ritual.
Sweet-smelling all-natural beeswax candles are easy to make and require no melted wax or special molds. This eco-kids kit contains everything you will need to make seven 4" candles. These candles offer a bright, steady flame.
Burn time approx 1.5 hours.
Made by eco-kids
Beeswax Lip Balm
$8.00Beeswax Lip Balm
Beeswax Lip Balm
$8.00
Made with safe ingredients and ethically harvested beeswax, Bee Balm Co is a great alternative to plastic-heavy lip balms.
Tubes are 0.4 oz (twice the volume of a standard lip balm tube), so they last longer and are comfortable to hold.
The tube and label are both 100% compostable.
Three varieties:
Lemon Lavender — Fresh and springy. Fragrant lavender and citrus combine in a bright, floral scent.
Cedar Vanilla — Woodsy cedar combines with warm vanilla notes for a truly unique scent.
Peppermint — Classic and perfect
Made by Bee Balm Company in Woburn, MA
Bess Kalb Care Package
$90.00Bess Kalb Care Package
Bess Kalb Care Package
$90.00What's inside:
- Bess' heartfelt memoir, Nobody Will Tell You This But Me, about her strong-willed grandmother, Bobby Bell, and four generations of indomitable women. Through Bobby's words, it blends family lore and secrets with humor and poignancy. A celebration of the bond between a grandmother and granddaughter.
- While one might not think of a Hedgehog brooch first for their creative project, it is a wonderful tribute to a grandparent figure. When you're grappling with profound emotional pain, taking a creative break can offer a much-needed respite from the overwhelming emotions. Each kit includes complete materials and instructions suitable for a beginner.
- The care package also includes a coconut milk hand mask, a soothing lavender bath bomb, and a fragrant soy wax candle to create a tranquil evening at home. Paired with a warm cup of tea and some delicious nuts, it's a combination that's bound to be appreciated.
Between the Mountains and the Stars Journal
$12.00Between the Mountains and the Stars Journal
Between the Mountains and the Stars Journal
$12.00Birth-Adoption Care Package
$120.25Birth-Adoption Care Package
Birth-Adoption Care Package
$120.25The Birth/Adoption Care Package offers the recipient comfort and support with a mixture of thoughtful and useful gifts. Each included item is purposefully chosen to support babies and parents and make life a little easier during a big life transition.
- Baby stuffed animal
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Potager organic soap
- Bamboo soap deck
- Bath tea
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Organic tea sampler
- Snack bars
- Kitchen trash bags
- Toilet paper (4 pack)
- Cutlery
- Compostable plates
- Reusable freezer bags and labeling marker
- Personalized message of your choosing
- Gift Packaging
- Follow Up Card (sent 6-8 weeks after package delivery)
Birth-Adoption Care Package - Essentials
$56.00Birth-Adoption Care Package - Essentials
Birth-Adoption Care Package - Essentials
$56.00The Birth/Adoption Care Package - Essentials offers the recipient comfort and support with a mixture of thoughtful and useful gifts. Each included item is purposefully chosen to support babies and parents and make life a little easier during a big life transition.
- Organic tea sampler
- Baby stuffed animal
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Potager organic soap
- Personalized message of your choosing
- Gift Packaging
- Follow Up Card (sent 6-8 weeks after package delivery)
If you'd like to customize your own care package, visit our box builder.
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Black Widow
$14.00Black Widow
Black Widow
$14.00Black Widow: A Sad-Funny Journey Through Grief for People Who Normally Avoid Books with Words Like "Journey" in the Title by Leslie Gray Streeter
Leslie Gray Streeter is not cut out for widowhood. She's not ready for hushed rooms and pitying looks. She is not ready to stand graveside, dabbing her eyes in a classy black hat. If she had her way she'd wear her favorite curve-hugging leopard print dress to Scott's funeral; he loved her in that dress! But, here she is, having lost her soulmate to a sudden heart attack, totally unsure of how to navigate her new widow lifestyle. ("New widow lifestyle." Sounds like something you'd find products for on daytime TV, like comfy tracksuits and compression socks. Wait, is a widow even allowed to make jokes?)
Looking at widowhood through the prism of race, mixed marriage, and aging, Black Widow redefines the stages of grief, from coffin shopping to day-drinking, to being a grown-ass woman crying for your mommy, to breaking up and making up with God, to facing the fact that life goes on even after the death of the person you were supposed to live it with. While she stumbles toward an uncertain future as a single mother raising a baby with her own widowed mother (plot twist!), Leslie looks back on her love story with Scott, recounting their journey through racism, religious differences, and persistent confusion about what kugel is. Will she find the strength to finish the most important thing that she and Scott started?
Tender, true, and endearingly hilarious, Black Widow is a story about the power of love, and how the only guidebook for recovery is the one you write yourself.
Product details
- Publisher: Little, Brown and Company (March 10, 2020)
- Language: English
- Hardcover: 272 pages
- ISBN-13: 978-0316490719
- Item Weight: 13.4 ounces
- Dimensions: 5.9 x 1.2 x 8.55 inches
*Your book copy might have a publisher's mark on the top or bottom — a black line or dot to indicate that it was a surplus copy. Your book is still new and unread. If you have any questions, please contact us.
Blank Bear and Balloons Card
$5.00Blank Bear and Balloons Card
Blank Bear and Balloons Card
$5.00- Bear holding colorful balloons. Art by Sandra Connelly
- Blank interior
- Heavyweight cardstock
- Card envelope
Blank Botanical Garden Card
$5.00Blank Botanical Garden Card
Blank Botanical Garden Card
$5.00- Blank interior
- 4"x"6 inches
- Heavy cardstock
- Card envelope
Blank Cherry Blossom Card
$5.00Blank Cherry Blossom Card
Blank Cherry Blossom Card
$5.00- 4" x 6"
- Cherry blossom artwork
- Blank interior
- Card envelope
Blank Dragonfly Card
$5.00Blank Dragonfly Card
Blank Dragonfly Card
$5.00- Dragonfly art and blank interior
- Printed on 4x6"
- Heavyweight matte cardstock
- Card envelope
Blank Elephants Card
$5.00Blank Elephants Card
Blank Elephants Card
$5.00
- Elephants art and blank interior.
- Printed on 4x6" heavyweight matte cardstock
- Card envelope
Blank Green Pearls Card
$5.00Blank Green Pearls Card
Blank Green Pearls Card
$5.00- Blank Interior
- Printed on 6x4" heavy weight cardstock
- Card envelope
Blank Little Boat Card
$5.00Blank Little Boat Card
Blank Little Boat Card
$5.00- 4x6" Little Boat card
- Blank interior
- Card envelope
Blank Panda Heart Card
$5.00Blank Panda Heart Card
Blank Panda Heart Card
$5.00- 4x6" card on heavyweight matte cardstock
- Blank interior
- Card envelope
Blank Pink Cosmos Card
$5.00Blank Pink Cosmos Card
Blank Pink Cosmos Card
$5.00- 4x6"
- Pink cosmos artwork
- Blank interior
- Card envelope
Blank Starry Ocean Card
$5.00Blank Starry Ocean Card
Blank Starry Ocean Card
$5.00- Blank Interior
- Printed on 6x4" heavy weight cardstock
- Card envelope
Blank Tulips Card
$5.00Blank Tulips Card
Blank Tulips Card
$5.00- 4x6" tulips art printed on heavyweight matte cardstock.
- Card envelope
Body and Massage Oil
$16.00Body and Massage Oil
Body and Massage Oil
$16.00This luxurious bath and massage oil blend contains organic high oleic sunflower oil, rich organic almond oil, rose absolute essential oil, lavender, and geranium oils.
These oils not only replenish the skin but nourish and provide essential skin-soothing benefits.
4 oz BPA free plastic bottle
Body Pillow
$36.00Body Pillow
Body Pillow
$36.00
Delivering comfort that can be heated or frozen to help with sore muscles or cramps and helps relieve stress or discomfort. Filled with flaxseed, for the ultimate comfort level.
Slipcover made of OEK-TEX 100% washable linen. Insert made of undyed organic muslin cotton and sewn with cotton thread. Handmade by Ardent Goods.
Boxed Coloring Set
$15.00Boxed Coloring Set
Boxed Coloring Set
$15.00
Each set contains 26 cardstock images ready for coloring.
Each postcard is A6 in size and features a different creature that corresponds with each letter of the alphabet. The postcards have been left blank on the reverse so you can send them to all your friends or keep them for yourself. The postcards come presented in a kraft box.
Made by Neon Magpie in the UK.
Brave and Fascinating Card
$5.00Brave and Fascinating Card
Brave and Fascinating Card
$5.00
Card text reads: You Are Brave & Fascinating & I Am Dazzled by You.
This message of ardent affection is from Em & Friends' debut collection of cards and journals by Elizabeth Gilbert, bestselling author of City of Girls and Eat Pray Love.
- Foil stamping, colored envelope, blank inside
- A2 size (4.25" x 5.5")
Broken Objects Card
$5.00Broken Objects Card
Broken Objects Card
$5.00
Card text reads: In Japan, broken ovjects are often repaired with gold. The flaw is seen as a unique piece of the object's history, which adds to its beauty. Consider this when you feel broken.
Card by Em & Friends
- Foil stamping, blank inside
- A2 size (4.25" x 5.5") and matching envelope
Bubble Bar
$13.00Bubble Bar
Bubble Bar
$13.00Lemon bubble bar. Each bar can be used for multiple baths. Simply crumble off a piece of bar under warm running water for a luxuriously scented relaxing bath.
Made by Maggie Ann Soap Company in Grand Rapids, MI.
Bubbles
$6.00Bubbles
Bubbles
$6.00Made by Eco-Kids these plant-powered bubbles are free of parabens, phosphates and sodium laurel sulfate. Gluten free, cruelty-free and vegan!
Safe for children and the environment!
Build Your Own Care Package
$0.00Build Your Own Care Package
Build Your Own Care Package
$0.00Create a unique care package for your friends and loved ones with a wide variety of thoughtful items. Show your care and appreciation nearby or from afar.
Caregiver Support Package
$107.00Caregiver Support Package
Caregiver Support Package
$107.00The Caregiver Support Package offers the recipient comfort and support with a mixture of thoughtful and useful gifts. Each included item is purposefully chosen to make life a little easier and to help the individual feel a little less alone.
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Anticipatory grief brochure
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Pocket garden coloring book
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Colored pencils and sharpener
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Facial sheet masks (2 count)
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Embroidery kit
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Dandelion Lotion bar
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Snack bar variety pack (6 ct)
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Tea sampler
- Personalized message of your choosing
- Gift Packaging
- Follow Up Card (sent 6-8 weeks after package delivery)
If you'd like to customize your own care package, visit our box builder.
Caregiver Support Package - Essentials
$63.00Caregiver Support Package - Essentials
Caregiver Support Package - Essentials
$63.00The Caregiver Support Package - Essentials offers the recipient comfort and support with a mixture of thoughtful and useful gifts. Each included item is purposefully chosen to make life a little easier and to help the individual feel a little less alone.
- Anticipatory grief brochure
- Snack bar variety pack (6 ct)
- Tea sampler
- Pocket garden coloring book
- Colored pencils and sharpener
- Personalized message of your choosing
- Gift Packaging
- Follow Up Card (sent 6-8 weeks after package delivery)
If you'd like to customize your own care package, visit our box builder.
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Example of sharing your pain in appropriate way: "Desi was such a positive light in my life. His humor brought me so much joy over the years. I will miss him terribly." Example of overshadowing the bereaved's pain: "This is the saddest thing that's ever happened to me — I don't know how I will get through this.”
Part of the impossibility of death is thinking that there are no new memories. Sharing a past tale that the recipient may have never heard can be such a wonderful gift.
People want to be sure that a loved one will not be forgotten, or that they will be carried forward even if they are no longer physically here. Sharing things like, "We will toast Susan on her birthday every year," or "I know Jacob felt most at peace at the beach. Whenever I visit the coast, I will take a moment to remember him."
Avoid (at all costs) 'call me if you need me' - this puts the burden of action on the person you are trying to help. Instead say, 'I will bring you dinner next week', or 'I can watch the kids for you on Friday morning' and follow up on your offer. If you are in a position to offer ongoing support, tell the person. For example, "I am home every Sunday afternoon. I would love to host your kids any week that you need a break."
Here are some common grief platitudes that are best to be avoided; Everything happens for a reason, I can't imagine what you're going through, They're in a better place, You wouldn't be given you more than you can handle, They are watching over you, Stay strong, God needed an angel, It could be worse, at least..
We created a sympathy card chatbot that will ask you a few questions and them produce a draft message for you.